Top 5 reasons good people act like jerks toward victims

Here is a reminder for those who were re-traumatized by "good people's" reaction to their victimization.

Top 5 reasons good people act like a-holes toward victims:

1. They haven't dealt with their own shit

2. They haven't dealt with their own shit

3. They haven't dealt with their own shit

4. They haven't dealt with their own shit

5. They haven't dealt with their own shit

Notice that none of this has to do with the victim. I could make excuses for why people haven't dealt with their own shit, but I'm done with making excuses for people who hurt others.

Dear "good people,"

Get help. Be better. Your better could save a life. Literally.

Meanwhile, fuck you too. 🫶

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